So how can we imitate them when we know that we are sinners and that we have lots of failings? 

     We know from the experience of our families that it just isn’t like we think the Holy Family had to have been.  Yet, the feast is not one that’s impossible for us to reflect on and draw some very important lessons for ourselves. 

     First of all, I think it’s very important to emphasize that by recalling that Jesus was a member of a family, like anyone of us, is that his humanness was real.  This is something that is difficult for many of us get a hold of -- that Jesus was truly human in every way like us. 

     We can imagine Jesus as a tiny child.  We have lots of children sometimes running around the church, different ages and so on.  Well Jesus looked like any one of them as he grew and developed and became a mature person.  He went through all those stages of childhood like any of our children go through.  He was fully human. 

     And so I think we need not to so exalt the Holy Family that it’s beyond our reach. 

     There must have been times, to say the least, where they got a little impatient with one another.  There were times when they rubbed each other the wrong way, just as it happens in our families.  So it’s not really beyond our reach. 

     Then, also, when you consider, as we heard in today’s gospel, Jesus had to flee and Mary and Joseph had to take him because he was going to be killed.  He lived in a real world, a world filled with violence just as ours.  He lived as a refugee, homeless, and suffered as tens of millions of people suffer in our world right now. 

     So he really did have solidarity with us and with our experience.  And we can draw from that and come to know Jesus better as we reflect upon that experience of his as a real child, in a real family, in a real world, in a world filled with violence and sin -- just as in our world. 

     Of course, Jesus had to grow and fit into that somehow and try to change it.

     But, probably, the most important thing for us to reflect upon today, as we celebrate this Feast of the Holy Family, is to make ourselves aware of what Matthew is really doing in this Gospel. 

     Matthew is setting the stage for helping us to really know who Jesus is.  That’s why he describes this flight into Egypt and how Jesus came back from Egypt in fulfillment of those words from Hosea where God says, “I have called my son out of Egypt.”  What Matthew is doing is showing that Jesus is, in fact, the new Moses. 

     Just as Moses had been threatened with his life by a terrible ruler and had to flee out of Egypt, so does Jesus.  Just as Moses traveled back through the desert to the holy land, the Promised Land, Jesus is going to be the new Moses who will lead us out of slavery into freedom.  Not just the physical slavery, but of the slavery of sin into freedom as sons and daughters of God. 

     There are so many parallels that Matthew goes on throughout his gospel to show how Jesus is the new Moses. 

     Moses fed the people in the desert with manna.  Jesus goes off into the desert and there he feeds the people by multiplying the loaves and the fish.  Later on, he makes clear that that’s a symbol of how he continues to feed us through the Holy Eucharist.  Moses was the great lawgiver.  He brought the Commandments down from Mount Sinai.  Jesus goes up a mountainside and begins to give a new law.  He’s the new Moses with the new law.  “You have heard that it was said of old thou shalt not kill.  I say to you, and so on . . . “ 

     All those powerful ways show how his way and his teaching go beyond anything taught before.  He is this new Moses.  Just as Moses had established a covenant between God and the chosen people, Matthew wants us to understand that that’s what Jesus does too. 

     As we say in the Eucharistic prayer:  He stretched out his arms between heaven and earth in the everlasting sign of the covenant of love.  The new covenant between God and the people was a covenant of love and forgiveness -- the covenant that brings new life to us. 

     Jesus is the one who is the new Moses who establishes for us this new covenant with God.  We are bound to God as God’s sons and daughters and God is bound to us.  That’s what a covenant means. 

     Covenant of love -- unbreakable, unconditional, unlimited love is the new covenant that is given to us through Jesus. 

     And so, on this Feast of the Holy Family, we don’t just think about Jesus as this tiny child growing up in a family in Nazareth, we think about what Matthew is telling us who Jesus really is, the new Moses with the new covenant, the new law. 

     As we reflect on this feast day, we ask ourselves, “How do we respond to Jesus who is our new lawgiver, who is the one who set this new covenant for us and enables us to enter into it?” 

     First of all, it seems very clear we need to make sure that we commit ourselves to God’s covenant of love.  It’s a day when we can give special praise and thanks to God because we have been born into God’s family.  All of us, through our baptism, are members of the family of God.  Through this covenant of love, we are brothers and sisters of Jesus.  And, because we share the same spirit life of Jesus, we are in a deep and special way brothers and sisters to one another in our human family. 

     But here, especially, we think of ourselves as a parish family.  We’re joined together, bonded together in Jesus and we should give thanks and praise to God for that.  But, also, we must be challenged by the new law that Jesus gives to us.  That’s how we will enhance, develop, and make strong the bonds of family love.  If we really listen to the new law Jesus has brought.  “You have heard that it was said of old, and so on . . .  “

     Probably, for today, it’s summed up best in those words that Saint Paul proclaimed to the Church of Colossae, “Clothe yourselves then as is fitting for God’s chosen people, holy and beloved.  Put on compassion.” 

     Nothing marked the life of Jesus more than compassion, kindness, humility, meekness and patience, all those qualities we need in our human family, in our own personal family, and in our parish family. 

     Bear with one another.  Forgive one another whenever there is any occasion to do so. 

     Forgiveness is always at the forefront.  “Just as God has forgiven you, forgive one another.”

     A very important measurement of how much we need to forgive is as God has forgiven us.  And each of knows how much God has forgiven us and has done so unconditionally.  That’s how much we must forgive one another.  Let all this be done with love and through it everything is united. 

     Paul then goes on to say how the result of this will be the peace of Jesus in our hearts, in our homes, in our family life, in our parish, in our community, and in our world.   That’s an important point for us to think about. 

     All those qualities that will make peace come into my heart and into my family are the same qualities that will bring peace into our world.

     I have here Pope John Paul II’s message for the World Day of Peace for this year, January 1, 2002.  It’s very appropriate for the time in which we live and it’s obvious that Pope John Paul has thought very carefully about what’s happening in our world and how the human family is being torn apart because we have neglected the message of Jesus. 

     By sharing parts of this message, it will help us to see what each of us must do if we are to truly celebrate this Feast of the Holy Family.

     He starts by saying, “The World Day of Peace this year is being celebrated in the shadow of the dramatic events of 11 September last.  On that day, a terrible crime was committed.  In a few brief hours, thousands of innocent people of many ethnic backgrounds were slaughtered.  Since then, people throughout the world have felt a profound personal vulnerability and a new fear for the future.”  Then, a little further on, he says, “The hope which sustains the church at the beginning of 2002 is this:  That, by the grace of God, a world in which the power of evil seems once again to have taken the upper hand will, in fact, be transformed into a world in which the noblest aspirations of the human heart will triumph, a world in which true peace will prevail.” 

     That’s our hope. 

     It might seem impossible to many of us.  But then John Paul goes onto say how this could happen.  He says, “Recent events, including the terrible killings just mentioned, move me to return to a theme which often stirs in the depth of my heart when I remember the events of history which have marked my life.”  He’s talking very personally here.  He says, “…especially, my youth. The enormous sufferings of peoples and individuals, even among my own friends and acquaintances, caused by Nazi and communist totalitarianism, has never been far from my thoughts and prayers.  I have often paused to reflect on the persistent question, ‘How do we restore the moral and social order subjected to such horrific violence?’  My reasoned conviction, confirmed in turn by God’s holy word, is that the shattered order cannot be fully restored except by a response that combines justice with forgiveness.  The pillars of true peace are justice and that form of love which is forgiveness.” 

     He’s making it clear that that form of love which is forgiveness is the only thing that can bring healing in our personal family, in our parish family, and in the human family. 

     I’ll share just one more part.  Further on, he explains more clearly what he means by forgiveness.  “Forgiveness is not a proposal that can be immediately understood or easily accepted.  In many ways, it is a paradoxical message.  Forgiveness, in fact, always involves an apparent short term loss for a real long term gain.  Violence is the exact opposite.  Opting, as it does, for an apparent short term gain, it involves a real and permanent loss.  Forgiveness may seem like weakness, but it demands great spiritual strength and moral courage both in granting it and in accepting it.  It may seem, in some way, to diminish us, but, in fact, it leads us to a fuller and richer humanity, more radiant with the splendor of the creator.  So my ministry of the service of the gospel obliges me and, at the same time, gives me the strength to insist upon the necessity of forgiveness.  I do so again today in the hope of stirring serious and mature thinking on this theme with a view to a far reaching resurgence of the human spirit in individual hearts and in relations between peoples of the world.”

     I think that’s a very powerful message for us to reflect upon ? forgiveness as the form of love that can transform our world.  Think about what it could really mean within our family, personal family, parish family, and the family of nations?

      If we, as those who follow this new Moses, Jesus, really live up to his teaching and influence the direction of our nation, then that hope that John Paul has for genuine peace in the world would happen.  But I think it’s going to require a very deep conversion on the part of everyone of us to truly accept this way of Jesus, to follow him. 

     Matthew presents him as the new Moses, the one leading us to the Promised Land, the land of peace, justice, and love.  It’s up to us to make the choice to follow Jesus and to make his way of transforming the world a reality.  It’s an extraordinary challenge, but it’s one that with God’s help each of us can accept and can live out. 

     In the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit.  Amen.